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Well I named the blog well. It is a constant remider to me. After having Jeff come on board I was hoping to start the process in fairly short order as an adoption takes so long in itself. The decision is to wait! Wait and save. I have been protesting the waiting to start for months but I think I finally have come to grips with this and am now able to post that we will wait. Jeff has a certain amount in mind he would like to save before we begin the process. Since our adoption information meeting I have been constantly thinking how to make this happen sooner. I have seen God send me answers to prayers within a day on ways to save and I have also seen that even with those answers to get to that figure I have to wait, but as my friend and neighbor who is also an adoptive mother said to me, you would wait to have Brennan be your son right? You are waiting for YOUR child". She is so right and so I WAIT. I may post here and there on the lessons of waiting that I am learning day to day or the special moments that i want to remember but for the most part I will post after the WAIT.